"Peace Out Wifey!"

Here’s what I’m thinking about doing. As our kids get out of school this week, and summer officially begins, I’m thinking about telling my wife that I am going to take the summer off from her and the kids.  Don’t get me wrong, I obviously still love her and the kids. They are still really, really important to me. Really, I mean it. These are not just words to make me feel better about this decision. It’s just that there are some other things I want to get done this summer also—and sometimes they cramp my style, they slow me down.  Places I want to visit and things I want to do; having a family prevents me down from checking things off of my bucket list, what I want to do. Don’t worry. I will reassure her that I’ll see her again in three months. Plus, if there is some sort of major emergency, I will probably check in with her for an hour or so. I may even make an exception for a week or two in August so we can do some sort of obligatory family vacation. I will even Venmo her a few bucks after each paycheck to keep her happy. But other than that, it’s “Sayonara baby!”   Think about it… for the next three months I’m not going to waste any of my resources—time or attention, energy or money on my family. Just three glorious months of no one to make happy but me.  No more coming home, spending time with family. No more cleaning. No more dishes. No more laundry. No more conversations. No chauffeuring kids to games or piano lessons. I am just going to spend 92 straight days doing whatever I want, whenever I want.
 
Sounds ridiculous, right? Of course it does. This is not really going happen.  I would never do such a thing; and Calie would not let me. 😉 Even the suggestion of taking a summer off from your family sounds neglectful and absurd.  Which wife in her right mind would tolerate a husband living in selfish solitude golfing and fishing the summer away without her?  Yet the irony here is how easy it is for far too many to take the summer off from God.  Seriously!  Sure, we may not see it that way, nor do we do it intentionally, but the summer months often lend themselves to a less than consistent worship schedule.  Most churches experience less attendance, less excitement, and less generosity during June, July, and August. Truth be told, this trend has already crept its way in here.  As our summer schedules fill up, we can find ourselves tripped up by Satan and slacking in our “remember the Sabbath” duties.  We spend all of Saturday busy, so Sunday feels like a good day to sleep-in.  Vacations and trips to the lakes or down to the Jersey shore are the norm during the summer—but that doesn’t mean our worship habits should take a back seat. 
 
God will understand you taking a well-deserved vacation. He told you to “rest” on the Sabbath, as He knows you need a change of pace in order to recharge your batteries. Exodus 20:8-10 says, “Remember the Sabbath day by keeping it holy. Six days you shall labor and do all your work, but the seventh day is a Sabbath to the Lord your God.” God didn’t tell you to ignore worshipping Him for months at a time, but instead, find ways of worshipping him as you take a break from the busyness of your daily life. Maintain God as a priority in your life, not just when it is convenient. The most important thing we can do for our families is show them that Jesus is still on the throne of our hearts, even when it gets to be short-sleeve weather. On Sundays over the summer whether you’re in town or somewhere else—go to church.   Be immersed in His story.   Seek out a place to worship God and be fed by the holy goods that only He can give.  Worship is the place where God promises to meet us and give us His life-giving, forgiveness-granting goods.  Church is the place where God gospelizes and graces His people.  It is the place where the Divine serves us. What a gift, don’t miss it!
 
“Let us hold unswervingly to the hope we profess, for he who promised is faithful.  And let us consider how we may spur one another on toward love and good deeds, not giving up meeting together, as some are in the habit of doing, but encouraging one another—and all the more as you see the Day approaching.”  Hebrew 10:23-25
 
“I have so much to do today that I shall spend the first three hours in prayer.” (Martin Luther)
 
(Devotion adapted from our Weekly Blast, 6.1.21)
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